The Secure Love Sanctuary is for anxious hearts who want to heal insecurities, anxious attachment patterns and low self worth so they can find, keep and sustain happy, healthy, SECURE relationships.
In this sanctuary, you will get:
✨ EDUCATION - This is the space where you can build your knowledge and awareness around attachment styles and how it affects you, your life and your relationships. Every month, there will be a monthly theme - three pre-recorded weekly trainings and one LIVE Q&A each month with Sami.
✨ COMMUNITY - You will be a part of a PRIVATE community group where you are safe to openly share your story, struggles, and wins and receive support from others when you need it the most. Feeling seen, heard, and understood is essential for your healing journey.
✨ CONSISTENCY - At the end of each weekly training, there will be a weekly assignment for you to implement the practices, habits, and rituals into your daily lives. Consistency is KEY for embodying secure attachment.
In this sanctuary, you will also get access to:
✨ BONUS trainings, masterclasses and workshops
✨ Advice Column to ask questions and seek advice
✨ Access to Bonus Resources and Exclusive Discounts
✨ Supportive Community of Like-Minded People
🖥️ How to Manage Stonewalling
🖥️ How to Overcome Rejection
🖥️ Understanding the Anxious-Avoidant Dance
🖥️ Mastering the Art of Self Acceptance
🖥️ From Clingy to Confident: How to Stop Being Needy
🖥️ How to Skyrocket Your Self Worth
🖥️ Unlocking Attachment: How to Heal Your Anxious Attachment Patterns
🖥️ Healing Codependency
🖥️ Mastering the Art of Self Trust
💖 You’re battling with relationship anxiety, fears of abandonment, and self-criticism when dating or in a relationship: couch cries are becoming a daily thing and it’s starting to affect other areas of your life
💖 You’re a hopeless romantic so you tend to overthink everything and create stories in your mind out of fear of losing them but it sends you down that spiraling rabbit hole before you realize it’s happening!
💖 You’re aware that you’re self-sabotaging relationships and you recognise that things needs to change. You're ready to take personal responsibility for your wellbeing and refuse to be controlled by fear and anxiety. You just wanna do what's best for you and have no regrets.
💖 You’re struggling to stay consistent with self love habits (and NC with the ex... 👀) and need a support system full of guidance, community, accountability, and encouragement to help you through those tough, lonely times on your self-love journey toward becoming secure.
🌻 Be healthy and secure enough to sustain a committed relationship but also feel happy by yourself and capable of coping well if a relationship doesn't work out.
🌻 Have a sense of emotional security and peace within yourself and feel free, confident, and calm in relationships by transforming unworthiness into self-compassion and forgiveness.
🌻 Learn how to adopt secure habits and behaviors and practice them daily so you’re not floating through life like an emotional time bomb.
🌻 Develop a deep sense of self awareness and understand the concept of attachment styles in your life and relationships so you can love yourself and others unconditionally.
🔥 You wake up feeling excited, confident, content, and motivated. You have bundles of resources and tools to support you in building self-love rituals that make you feel AMAZING.
🔥 You’re no longer overwhelmed with loneliness. Reaching out and chasing people for love and validation is a thing of the past. You have your own back and a supportive community to lean on.
🔥 You are a badass at setting boundaries and saying NO to things that are in alignment with the life and relationship you want. You no longer worry whether you’ve upset others because your happiness and well-being come first.
🔥 You're no longer avoiding the dating scene because you feel too afraid and anxious to put yourself out there. You know your worth and what you deserve because you’ve mastered the art of self-validation and acceptance.
THE SELF LOVE SANCTUARY INTEGRATES THE FOUR KEY PRINCIPLES THAT YOU NEED TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS:
🗝️ CONSISTENCY: Consistency is KEY for embodying self-love and secure attachment. This membership will hold you accountable for doing the work.
🗝️ COMMUNITY: Feeling seen, heard, and understood is essential for your healing journey. This santuary is a safe space for you to be your complete self. We will not tolerate discrimination and bullying.
🗝️ COMMITMENT: This is needed to break your current patterns and beliefs and re-condition the way you show up in love and life. By committing to yourself, your life and relationships for just $1 per day is the definition of making yourself a priority. Say YES to yourself every month!
🗝️ CONNECTION: You no longer need to feel alone in your self love journey with a supportive community of people at your fingertips. With the trainings and support, you will develop deeper connections with yourself and others.
BONUS #1: CREATE YOUR DREAM VISION BOARD
Reserved for my private 1:1 clients, this amazing tool will help you create a vision board inspires the fu*k out of you, help you gain more clarity and focus around what's important for you and how to use it a tool for meditation and manifestation.
BONUS #2: ACCESS TO MY CORD-CUTTING WORKSHOP & WORKBOOK
This two-hour workshop and complimentary workbook will support you in releasing attachments and relationships that are no longer serving you in your new self-love chapter. This can be used when releasing exes, but also for letting go of old, insecure identities so you can step into a new era of your life.
Hi, I'm Sami 👋🏼 A Certified Self Love & Relationship Coach and Attachment Theory Specialist. I help individuals heal their toxic painful relationship patterns, reduce relationship anxiety and have the most EPIC relationship with themselves and others bursting with intimacy, connection and love.
> Originally from Wales and based in Thailand
> Coaching for 2+ years
> Obsessed with attachment psychology
> Meditation & yoga enthusiast
> Blending science with spirituality
> Loves travelling, hiking and dancing
After leaving a toxic 8 year relationship with an avoidant, I decided to embark on a self love journey around the world. After the relationship, I was left broken with no sense of self.
I truly believe that going through a break-up and taking the time to be single can be the best opportunity for healing and creating the most intimate relationship with yourself.
With my social work background and my personal experience, I decided to dedicate myself to helping others heal insecure attachment patterns and obtain healthy, happy relationships.
✨ Healthy relationships > Healthy children > Healthy world ✨
My intention for this membership is to combine the three things that were ESSENTIAL for my healing journey towards becoming secure: EDUCATION, COMMUNITY and ACCOUNTABILITY.
When you heal, you heal others and heal the world. Who's joining me on this mission?
Is this a monthly commitment?
It is what you make it to be. Technically, it is a month to month membership that you can join and cancel at any time. As long as you stay within the membership, your monthly price will stay the same - even if the membership price increases. For those who are ready to go all in on their healing journey, there is an annual membership option where you can save 20%.
Does this program include 1:1 calls to Sami?
This is a community based membership program so there is no 1:1 calls. However, you can use the community forums and live calls to ask questions and seek advice.
Is this for single people?
This membership is for EVERYONE regardless of gender and relationship status. If you want to receive support in healing anxious attachment patterns, this is the place for you.
What if I can't make the live calls?
We are an international community and we will try our best to make sure the trainings are at a suitable time for you. However, this may not always be the case. All of our monthly trainings, calls and classes are available for replay!
What if I want to join Sami's other coaching programs?
As a Secure Love Sanctuary member, you get 15% off all coaching programs that Sami launches.